they say that the media portrays the society, and by extension the tv shows of a society represents the culture (i have no idea who says that but it goes well with what im about to say :)) so there are a lot of tv shows about cheating and adultary in western tv shows.(yeah yeah ive been watching a lot of tv!) not only are the stories about cheating, but also about how to get a relationship over that particular mistake... how to move beyond and go on with life as a couple. as if it was just another ordiniary mistake that is made. that cheating was an accident, as if the person who committed the act was not responsible for their actions. and the person who is cheated on when they dont forgive the other person, they are the ones who are unyielding, unforgiving or just plain mean.

this society brings with it freedom and independence... but also brings a lot of disturbing moral implications. not that im going to cheat... or that im even in a position to cheat :P but its not just this, there are so many other things.... this is not someplace where i think i would want to live the rest of my life.

more about this later... gotta go right now