massive going away blues. im not sad about leaving... not really.... cos im really excited about going :D. its more like... no one else is sad that im leaving!
sigh i have attention deficit disorder...... in that im not getting enough attention! i want my friends to give me more attention. the whole world should focus on me! ME! thats not too much to ask is it?
no but seriously, except for a couple of ppl (literally 2 ppl.... IN and AH.... and AH only cos he has a thing for me and that really doesnt count cos he is not a close friend) and of course my family, i feel as if none of my friends really care whether im going or not. maybe it has a lot to do with the fact that most of them are in lahore (or elsewhere!) and ive been away from lums for a year now and its not that big a deal. but then again this past year i kept meeting my friends on and off... practically every month. and now im going to be going for 2 frikkin years.
what makes me think that my friends dont care that im leaving....
evidence A) i didnt get to spend quality time with my close friends when i was in lahore... correction.... my friends didnt bother to spend time with me
evidence B) the time i did spend with my friends was with a huge group of people who i do get along with but who are not my close friends. that is not what i wanted to do the last time i was meeting my friends.
evidence C) i went to lahore especially to meet my friends, that should have counted for soemthing but they didnt make any special effort for me (well AAA did.... she's a sweetheart)
evidence D) NO ONE GAVE ME A FAREWELL
sigh i know im over reacting and my friends care and people have other issues adn priorities and bla blah blah and all that crap taht i would normally understand and make allowances for. but screw all that. im leaving and i shouldnt be the one making allowances for people. the whole world should focus on me! well just my small part of the world and just for a few days. im leaving in 17 days. i was in lahore for just 2 days.
OFK says that i shouldnt hold any grudges and not fight with anyone about any of this cos im leaving for 2 years adn i wouldnt want to create any bad feelings before i leave. he's right. im trying not to be upset with anyone and im not fighting with anyone. but that doesnt change the fact that i am upset.
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i'm sorry bacha! in a way i've gotten too used to having friends leave. just about everyone i've been friends with has gone off someplace or the other. or i've gone off. for long periods of time. i guess now i just dont want to make a fuss about it coz that makes it hurt more for me!
i'm sorry for being so selfish but i gotta look out for myself! we all do i guess. you included!
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